Anonymous asked: i told the guy i like a pretty serious secret but then i found out that he had told some people. i still like him because he's like perfect except that. and i mean, i think he just didn't know it was that serious... and i trusted him because he's not like those other boys, he's SO nice! but is it still wrong for me to be so fucking in love with him?

I get like this quite alot!
I guess if he hasn’t done anything else wrong,it might be a fluke and it might just be a one off! But,he might do something else,and another thing,and another,and another,and another,and another! Until you have no trust left for him anymore and you realise that he’s not exactly what you thought he was!
It’s up to you,you can take the risk or play it safe!
It just depends how much he means to you and how much you like him!(:X

Anonymous asked: I feel so stupid all the time. I have ADDHD, ADD, dislexia, and test anxiety. I have an "F' In math and I'll be lucky if i get a D. I have stopped eating because of the stress and worries of repeating a grade. I hate my school so much. I just feel like God has given up on my life. Their are always happy people in the world who have everything... I guess I am one of the ones who feel like they have nothing and are so miserable. I just want to have success in one thing.I guess thats to much to ask

My advice to you would be to start eating,as hard as it might sound-you need to eat! Food is what keeps your brain going! And then,have a chat with your teachers! My brother has dyslexia and he went to his teachers and they ended up giving him extra time on his exam! They might do something alike!
I guess it would be hard for you,but lots of people have these problems in life!
Just have a chat with your teachers,eat more&revise a little harder than everyone else!(: X

ivory-winds asked: anon, I was one of those anonymous people asking for help (not going to say what) so thats absolute BULLSHIT. this blog has helped me a lot xx

Glad to know I helped,thankyou XX

Anonymous asked: do you actually think a stupid advice blog is going to fucking save lives? i bet its you just sending stupid messages to yourself 'oooh im bisexual' 'oooh i get naked online' 'ooooh im jealous of my friends weight' i bet your a 11 year old girl who has no knowlage on life at all. before you start giving advice,live life a little bit. telling people to stop slitting their rists isnt exactly going to make them is it? didn't think so,grow up....

your’e* an* wrists*
ahahhahahahahahhah,
how is this sly message going to do anything?
i clearly don’t send messages to myself,that would be so rubbish!
and fine you don’t think it will save lives,but if somebody slits and is ready to commit and i talk to them,make them feel wanted&safe and show them a video to scare them away from doing it-you won’t be calling advice blogs then! Because seriously,this could potentially save lives!
Oh and why would it matter how old I am?
An 11 year old might have been through more in their life than a 44 year old so who are you to judge?
You think I should grow up?
Well,think again!
Your the one sending silly little messages to hurt people’s feelings & I’m the one helping people!
aaahhaaahahahhahaha,
Because I’m the on acting childish,yeah clearly!
Do me a favour and do one so I can get back to helping people (y) 

Anonymous asked: how do i tell my parents i'm bisexual? i've known for a few months now and they aren't homosexual, but i don't know how to tell them :(

omg!my brother is gay!
My brother just came out to my mum one day,he was really brave and my mum was so proud for that! i recommend writing it down and leaving it for them while they are out if you are scared!
My mum said she recommends you just sit them down and have a chat,it might take a while to finally come out and say it but you will gain trust and respect with your parents!
Or you could always try by telling a friend/closer family member and then build up the confidence to tell your family(:
Good Luck!x 

Anonymous asked: I want to kill myself. I strip for naked guys on the internet. I hate being here. I broke a guy's heart because I couldn't explain to him that I can't stand breathing. I'm lying to boyfriend every day by trying to be happy for him. What do I do?

omg!:(
You need to talk to people about this!
You cannot kill yourself!
Imagine your family walking in and seeing you,they’d be distraught!
Watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cETHTPeGvEc
It’s a long video,but it’s worth it!
And stop stripping! It’s not helping anything:(
Honestly,im speechless!
My only advice is talk to people:(
I’m so sorry!
all my love,you can always talk to me Xxx

Anonymous asked: i know its so bad to have anorexia, and its so hard to get over and so on... one of a girl i know has it, and everyone loves her and thinks shes so perfect and hot, but shes my friend so i know she have anorexia. but im kind of jealous that shes so skinny, and everyone just adore her. when i see her i get so jealous. it just seems like people only thinks skinny people is beautiful. thats my secret :(

nononononononononono!
Don’t be jealous of her! Yeah,she may be beautiful but it isn’t her size people adore! Anorexic isn’t healthy! Every person is beautiful weather your size 2,6,10,20,25! It isn’t your size that people should judge you by!
There’s not much I can say to convince you that your beautiful in your own way,but when you look in the mirror don’t pick out your flaws or compare yourself to people! Look in the mirror and pick out the things you like because that’s the most important thing! When you are happy with how you look,other people will see it!
Just remember your gorgeous!
Xx